When someone who is black, gay, and/or female mistreats someone, why does that evoke such bigotry?

I agree with you.It does seem that whenever someone gets mad at me (a black female..great huh),I get called a dumb [garden tool] or a [F*G] or a [N*gger].It's the way mainstream America is and they make seem like it's okay.Howeve you can't blame "whites" for starting problems with "blacks".You cant take something that happened 200 years ago and blame the rascist walking down the street for the way he was raised yeah it's not right but you can't be mad for at smeones life choices or life style thats just as bad as them